Life Goes On...

People at the early stage of Alzheimer's disease may be able to continue in some of their most important roles. Relationships may change because of changing abilities. For example:

 

• Changes in communicating may make it difficult for your loved one to express his or her thoughts and feelings. This may cause your loved one to feel angry, frustrated, or lonely
• Sharing the diagnosis with others may cause your loved one  to worry that friends and family members will act differently with him or her
• Hiding the diagnosis or not telling it to others may cause your loved one to fear that his or her symptoms will be discovered. This can lead to social isolation and being depressed

You as the Caregiver will also experience changes in your usual role and relationship with your loved one. For example:

• Your loved one's changing abilities may require you to take over some unfamiliar tasks, such as paying bills, cooking meals, or driving
• Communication difficulties that cause your loved one to feel lonely can create the same feelings for you

Here are some suggestions to help you and your loved one move forward in your changing roles:

• Help your loved one determine whom he or she will tell about the diagnosis, and how he or she  will do so. 
• Consider getting support for your feelings. Talk with each other, or talk with friends, family, or professionals.
• Encourage your loved one to continue to do familiar things that help him or her feel connected to you and others, such as preparing meals, or visiting family.
• If appropriate, encourage your loved one  to address his or her needs on a spiritual level by attending religious services or reading special passages together

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